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Explore books written by Kaytee Gillis
BREAKING THE CYCLE
THE 6 STAGES OF HEALING FROM CHILDHOOD FAMILY TRAUMA
Most of us are only starting to become aware of how our foundational years contribute to who we are today.
For many, understanding our trauma is not about blame, but about understanding, learning, and growing.
Using elements from her clinical work, as well as personal experience, Gillis provides support and tips for survivors navigating 6 common stages of healing.
No matter where you are in your journey — only just uncovering, becoming more aware, or supporting a loved one in their process —this book will help.
What readers are saying about the book…
Winner of the 2023 Firebird Book Award! ⭐ 2024 Literary Titan Award Winner! ⭐ 2024 Finalist for the Book Excellence Award!
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Winner of the 2023 Firebird Book Award! ⭐ 2024 Literary Titan Award Winner! ⭐ 2024 Finalist for the Book Excellence Award! ⭐
A must-read for anyone dealing with issues related to childhood trauma.
- Dale Hartley, PhD, author of Machiavellians: Gulling the Rubes
Breaking the Cycle is an insightful read and a testament to Gillis’s contributions to psychotherapy and literature. Her ability to transform complex psychological concepts into accessible knowledge is commendable. This book is a vital resource for anyone on a journey of healing or seeking a deeper understanding of the human condition.
- Literary Titan
IT’S NOT “HIGH-CONFLICT” IT’S POST-SEPARATION ABUSE.
WHEN ABUSERS WEAPONIZE THE COURTS AS A FORM OF RETALIATION.
The family court system is meant to protect domestic violence victims, yet too often, it becomes an endless labyrinth that traps them inside. Abusers weaponize our judicial system to instill their revenge, from long, drawn-out divorces and custody battles to forcing their victims to spend thousands of dollars and endless time in court. When our judicial system fails to protect victims from this abuse, they give abusers the freedom to continue it. Legally.
"This book is a gem for those experiencing post-separation abuse from an intimate partner! As a retired therapist who specialized in intimate partner abuse therapy, I wish I'd had it for clients going through this never-ending cycle of abuse..." -Jennifer Parker, LCSW, Author of "Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers You Seek
INVISIBLE BRUISES
HOW A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF THE PATTERNS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CAN HELP SURVIVORS NAVIGATE THE LEGAL SYSTEM
A powerful read for survivors, those in the mental health fields, and people in the legal system, this book draws on Gillis’s personal and clinical experiences as a psychotherapist to offer a unique insight into the gaps in the legal system that actually perpetuate the cycle. With a detailed account of the court system and the seemingly endless struggles survivors face throughout this slow and lengthy process, this eye-opening book gives insight into the ways that we can improve the court and legal system.
What other readers are saying about the book…
…a deeply personal, extraordinarily powerful and often painful look at the pattens of domestic violence; the consequences of staying versus leaving and the labyrinth of our legal system.
- Amazon Review